“How to save my relationship with my boyfriend,” is the deafening cry of your heart! Who would have thought, that after the “so-much-in-love” stage and the “to-die-for” feelings for your special someone, right now, you are in a “crying-out-loud, tell me how to save my relationship with my boyfriend” phase. One can never tell the outcome of a relationship. That is why you always want to enjoy it while it lasts. Dwelling on the end can stop a relationship before it really starts.
Nodding to the idea that everything is temporary and nothing lasts is like giving in to fatalism and saying, “Ok. It just did not work and it’s totally fine with me.” What if you were really meant to be together and you just succumbed to consequences and never even tried to get your boyfriend back?
Almost all women long for a lifetime commitment. Working to save your relationship with your boyfriend the right way will go a long way to helping you achieve your goals. Realizing the needs of your partner and working to save things can actually work…so go for it girl!
Saving a relationship with your boyfriend needs more work than you can imagine. If you are willing to go through it, consider first the daunting task ahead. Is it truly worth it?
Can The Relationship Be Saved?
Do you want to have a troubled relationship? Of course, no one wants trouble. The truth is, there are no heaven-on-earth relationships. When troubles come and shakes the relationship down, both of you need to agree to save the relationship. Do you see the relationship as worth fighting for? Are you both agreeable to meet half-way and re-build the relationship?
Is Your Boyfriend Worth-Keeping?
Do you desperately want him back? If you are still not certain, but then, you can’t imagine what it is like not having him around, then no doubt, you need him. He is someone worth fighting and worth keeping. Do your part and initiate. You deserve to be happy and fighting to save the relationship with your boyfriend can be worth all the effort. Just make sure you are fighting for the right reason. A relationship should be a joining of two whole people. Don’t base a relationship on “needs” alone.
Is The Relationship A Continuing Means Or An End In Itself?
The courtship stage seems an endless process of good times and sweet moments. When the relationship is established, sometimes there are things that are taken for granted that affects warmth and intimacy. Having a relationship is an on-going commitment and not a comfort zone. Relationships falter when you begin to feel comfortable in the relationship and you just settle for less. This should not be the case because a relationship needs to be nurtured for it to grow. You are happy to be together but it is not enough to be complacent in the happiness stage. Keep the relationship fresh and exciting. Continue to work hard in saving your relationship.
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