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If marriage is nothing like you thought it would be

If marriage is nothing like you thought it would be
The following is an excerpt from Naked Marriage I believe a majority of married couples have a false notion of what marriage truly is, and those rose-colored assumptions tend to heighten expectations to such unrealistic levels that these couples often find themselves in predicament’s like Amy and Daniel’s. Because they don’t understand what marriage is and could be, they hide from each other. To keep the peace, they continue the charades, each spouse reluctantly believing, “I guess this is just how it’s supposed to be.” Consequently, they refuse to get naked with each other in all of th...
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Have You Ever Thought About Secretly Taking Off Your Condom During Sex?

Have You Ever Thought About Secretly Taking Off Your Condom During Sex?
According to a paper published in the Columbia Journal of Gender and Law, the non-consensual removal of a condom during sex, a.k.a. ‘Stealthing’, is gaining popularity amongst online groups, Reddit threads, and forums. According to a lot of women, this behavior can easily be categorized as “sexually abusive”, "rape-adjacent” and a “grave violation of dignity…” Reason being? The overwhelming fear of unwanted pregnancy, STDs, HIV, and AIDS, mixed with confusion, betrayal, and shame is strikingly similar to that of a victim dealing with sexual viol...
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