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10 Communication Techniques to Finally Get Them to Open Up to You

10 Communication Techniques to Finally Get Them to Open Up to You
It’s not easy getting someone to talk to you. But open communication is vital in relationships. Here are some communication techniques that can help. You know how important communication is in a relationship. Without it, your relationship won’t last. You’ll have a number of different problems all based on the fact that you lack the necessary communication techniques to make your relationship work. Luckily, those methods can be learned. But it won’t be without effort. Relationships are hard work and a lot of that work is in the communication. You have to be willing to work on talking to each ot...
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Loving Someone with Depression: Why It’s Not Your Job to Fix Them

Loving Someone with Depression: Why It’s Not Your Job to Fix Them
Loving someone with depression can strip you of your own joy. You can’t save them. Only they can save themselves, it isn’t your fault they’re sad. For most of us, when in a relationship, you want to make your partner happy. In fact, you thrive on being with someone who not only fulfills you but that you make their life better too. Loving someone with depression is not an easy thing. It isn’t just tough on them—it takes a toll on you. We all go through times in our lives where things aren’t so great, we get into a funk, or we just don’t feel happy. But, if you live with someone who can’t seem t...
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How to Give Someone Space Without Losing Them: Letting Fear Go

How to Give Someone Space Without Losing Them: Letting Fear Go
Set free the one you love. If they return, it was meant to be. Bullshit, isn’t it? There’s no guarantee for how to give someone space without losing them. That old saying, “If you love someone set them free, and if it was meant to be, they will come back,” sucks. Not because it isn’t true, but because it sounds so damn easy. If you want to know how to give someone space without losing them, the answer is mind over manner. For those of us who have a harder time with the inner voices that create anxiety, it can be torture. Rationally, what you already know, and I don’t have to tell you, is that ...
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