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Do Emotional Affairs Ever Stop? 12 Steps to Break the Connection

Do Emotional Affairs Ever Stop? 12 Steps to Break the Connection
Becoming emotionally attached to someone is another story. So, now that you love this other person, do emotional affairs ever stop? When it comes to cheating, I don’t believe those who cheat are bad people. Understand that people cheat for different reasons. Sure, some people just do it because they don’t care. However, many people cheat out of dissatisfaction with their current relationship. Cheating isn’t just physical, but emotional too. You know when physical affairs stop. But, do emotional affairs ever stop? Just because you’re with someone, it doesn’t mean you’re happy. I know what you’r...
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How to Stop Caring About Someone Who Once Meant the World to You

How to Stop Caring About Someone Who Once Meant the World to You
Breakups suck. They’re difficult to get through and sometimes you can’t let go. If this is you, you may want to know how to stop caring about someone. I know how hard it is to get through a breakup – especially when that person was your entire world. But for one reason or another, they’ve decided that you’re not a great match and there you lay, covered in blankets and clutching your favorite tub of ice cream, wondering just how to stop caring about someone you love. It won’t be easy, that’s for sure. But over time, you can learn to stop caring about someone you once loved. It’ll take time, con...
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Want to Find True Love? Stop Believing These 4 Relationship Myths

Want to Find True Love? Stop Believing These 4 Relationship Myths
A lot of people believe relationship myths and this is partly Hollywood’s doing. Movies, TVs, and books tell us certain storylines about love, and we want to believe them. It’s comforting to think someone is out there waiting to complete you and fulfill all your wants and needs. But is it realistic? Not so much. There’s also a feeling of individuality behind modern relationship myths. In centuries past, children were strategically married off by their families for economic and status reasons. Now, in the Western world, people choose their mates. But this doesn’t mean that relationship myths ac...
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Can You Ever Stop Loving Someone?

Can You Ever Stop Loving Someone?
Though the question seems out of place in a men’s magazine, I ask you, my brothers, to think seriously about it. We are men. Testosterone drives us to hunt, to protect, to act out in all sorts of aggressive ways; it is partly responsible for the greater development of our muscle mass, the density of our bone structure, the hair on our faces and chest, and the desire to protect what is ours—to defend our hearth and home, our women and children. The masculine chemical also makes it harder for us to form lasting and permanent attachments to mates. We can fuck anyone. From puberty onwards,...
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Why You Should Stop Being a Good Person

Why You Should Stop Being a Good Person
“You’re such a good boy, Daniel.” “Sarah, that was a nice thing you did. You’re a sweetheart.” Did you hear phrases like this when you were younger? If you’re a parent, have you said something similar to your child? This form of praising starts in early childhood. Our parents, family members, and teachers innocently install it in us (as the prior generation did to them). “Good boy/girl” praising gives children a sense of pride and approval from their parents. This praising gets anchored into the child’s mind. Good behavior brings reward. Expressing negative emotions and unacceptable behavior ...
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