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How to Stay Single Until You’re Seriously Ready to Mingle

How to Stay Single Until You’re Seriously Ready to Mingle
Usually, people try to figure out ways to land a relationship, but you, you’re trying to figure out how to stay single for now. I’ve had my fair share of heartbreaks and after this last one, it was almost movie worthy. I decided it was time for me to take some breathing space. Does that mean that men want nothing to do with me? Absolutely not. In fact, it’s like when they see that you don’t want anything to do with them, they want you more. It’s tragic. I mean, when I wanted a relationship, I’d leave the club literally hearing crickets. But now that I wonder how to stay single, they won’...
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Bad enough to leave? Or good enough to stay?

Bad enough to leave? Or good enough to stay?
Wise Readers: When you get involved with someone, do you find yourself wondering whether their behavior is bad enough to justify leaving them? Or do you wonder whether it’s good enough to stay? The orientation of your question is important. Abuse is scientifically defined as a systematic program of controlling another person. Abusers can use any means: money, threats, put-downs, public humiliation, physical injury, sexual harm. But it all comes down to control. I want you all to be very careful to avoid people who show early signs of controlling behavior. You’ll never know whether ...
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