Sexless

Q&A with J: “What Can I Do About My Sexless Marriage?” Part 2

Q&A with J: “What Can I Do About My Sexless Marriage?” Part 2
Welcome to my Thursday Q&A…on Saturday. Because Wednesday through Friday were Crazy Town in the Parker office, so I’m two days behind. Anyway, last week, I talked about addressing sexless marriage, or ones in which your libidos are highly mismatched. In that post, I suggested “if you want to make progress in a sexless marriage, you should make every effort to create a safe environment in which your refusing spouse can share and feel validated, loved, and supported.” But let me go back and clarify something for those of you in the midst of a sexual drought in your ma...
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Friday Flashback: Why She Says No to Sex And What You Can Do About It

Friday Flashback: Why She Says No to Sex And What You Can Do About It
The most read post on this blog, is Why wives say no to sex, and what a man can do about it. At 175 comments it may also be the post with the most comments. It was published June 23, 2012 following a survey asking women why they say no to sex. Time for an updated version of the post. When we originally ran the poll, 171 women answered – some only after Lori assured them it was anonymous! We have now had 468 women answer the survey. The ranking of answers did not change significantly with the additional answers. As with any web-based survey, I can’t claim the results are representative of ...
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How To Fix A Sexless Relationship

How To Fix A Sexless Relationship
As fun as dating can be, the realities of a sexless relationship can loom over a couple like a storm cloud on an otherwise sunny day. No matter how happy a couple may seem at first, the harsh reality that they can both enter into a dry spell together is something that shouldn’t be ignored. The reasoning behind this shift is often misrepresented by harmful stereotypes — that sex will inevitably ... Dating Tips channel Looking for more on dating? continue reading here.
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