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How to Keep a Relationship Going: The Secret to Harmonious Love

How to Keep a Relationship Going: The Secret to Harmonious Love
You can’t do anything wrong in a new romance. But as the love grows, learning how to keep a relationship going strong makes all the difference. I am just going to say it—relationships are not easy. In fact, a good relationship is about the rarest thing there is. It is very infrequent when I am not out for a girl’s night, and the conversation turns into a bash session about everyone’s significant other. Whether dating or married, learning how to keep a relationship going isn’t always simple. How to keep your relationship going strong At the beginning of a relationship, you can’t do anythi...
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Book Review: Radical Acceptance: The Secret to Happy, Lasting Love

Book Review: Radical Acceptance: The Secret to Happy, Lasting Love
At the heart of all advice about how to have better relationships, resolve conflict, improve connection, and enhance intimacy is the idea of simply learning to accept others for who they are. Acceptance is, after all, the highest form of love. In her new book, Radical Acceptance: The Secret to Happy, Lasting Love, Andrea Miller, the founder and CEO of YourTango makes the compelling case that acceptance isn’t just good for our relationships — it’s also good for us. Although Miller founded an organization whose mission is to help people love better and connect more meaningfully, her own pe...
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A Marriage (Bed) Secret

A Marriage (Bed) Secret
My Top Twelve: As Lori and I cruise with the icebergs, I’m running a dozen of my favourite posts. Enjoy! When I wrote this back in 2014 I originally called it “A secret the manosphere doesn’t know”. I think that was shortly after we had a bunch of those fellows show up in the comments and explain how they thought things should be. —– Respected, secure wives who are living out their calling are way more fun in bed. They have more fun, and they make it more fun for their husband. They’re more likely to seek out sex and more likely to push the limits.  Fo...
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