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Dating Multiple People: Why This Isn’t Bad, but Really Healthy!

Dating Multiple People: Why This Isn’t Bad, but Really Healthy!
Dating multiple people might have a negative connotation, but there is nothing negative about playing the field to make sure you know what you want. I have a 13-year-old who just broke up with his first girlfriend. He is kind of a sensitive soul by nature, so I waited for the day with trepidation, thinking his whole world was going to fall apart. I found out about two weeks after they broke up. All he had to say about it was, “I am 13. Did you think I was going to marry her?” What my 13-year-old understands about dating multiple people, not many adults do. The phrase dating multiple people sou...
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How to Really Empathize with Someone

How to Really Empathize with Someone
We tend to misunderstand empathy. We think empathizing with someone is consoling them. We think it’s helping them fix whatever problem they’re having. We think it’s giving advice. If it were me, I’d pick a different career. If it were me, I’d end the relationship. If it were me, I wouldn’t think so much about it. Have you tried taking a real break? Have you considered that other option? We think empathizing with someone is wondering how we’d feel or react in the same situation. But empathy isn’t any of these actions. According to psychologist and empathy researcher Lidewij Niezink, Ph.D, the ...
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Emotionally Detached? 15 Signs They Don’t Really Care About You

Emotionally Detached? 15 Signs They Don’t Really Care About You
You may be dating or interested in someone, but they’re just not giving you what you want. You could say that they act emotionally detached. I have been on dates with so many guys and tried dating some of them where I felt things were off as if they were emotionally detached. Well, I didn’t have to feel it, half of them literally ran away from me, so I could see it wasn’t going to go anywhere. But was that because I did something wrong? No, in fact, I did everything right. They simply weren’t ready. Someone may like you, but the minute they start thinking about what the future with you will lo...
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Is She Really A Lesbian?

Is She Really A Lesbian?
What is sex? It is an instinct, an impulse, a drive, a raw, irrational energy that flows through all animals. It is the means by which different species survive. In human beings, it assumes rather complex forms. The highly developed and flexible nature of our minds gives us all bi-sexual tendencies when we are young. We are open, uncertain, and experimental while growing up. As we reach pre-pubescence, our instincts become more settled. Most men go with women; most women go with men; a great many individuals go with members of their own sex. O...
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35 Really Important Questions to Ask a Girl You Just Met

35 Really Important Questions to Ask a Girl You Just Met
So, you finally met the girl of your dreams… well, maybe. But how do you know if she’s the ONE? Here are some questions to ask a girl you just met. It’s always exciting to meet new people, especially hot girls that you either want to date or maybe even marry some day! Okay, let’s not get ahead of ourselves with the marriage thing quite yet. Because you just met her. But you know you like her, and you don’t want to blow it. Not every guy is good at making conversation with a girl he likes, so I’m here to help you. 35 important questions to ask a girl you just met It’s really important...
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Sex With A Piscean: This Is What Itandamprsquos Really Like

Sex With A Piscean: This Is What Itandamprsquos Really Like
Ever been on a yacht in the middle of the night under the moon and the stars? Had the wind blow smoothly enough to give you just the perfect chill? And then imagined all the stars twist in to one spiral so you feel like you’re floating in the middle of it all but, you couldn’t care less because it feels so good that you could stay like that forever? That’s what sex with a Pisces is like. It’s slow dancing in a burning room; it’s the peaceful easy feeling; it’s like being taken to church and it’s burning love… even when it’s not love. To ha...
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