Past

The Past: Sex

The Past: Sex
Sex has a way of getting deep into our minds and hearts. We recall sexual things more easily and more vividly than most other memories. This means our sexual past has more power to mess us up than many other things from our past. One of the big ways our sexual past affects us is that it created our sexual preferences. The things that first aroused and pleasured us tend to stick with us. For example, I grew up in the era of tube tops*, and my first contact with a girl’s breasts was after she had pulled her tube top down for me. So for me, tube tops are inherently sexy. If Lori walked in ...
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Retroactive Jealousy: Is Your Past Rousing Your Lover’s Jealousy?

Retroactive Jealousy: Is Your Past Rousing Your Lover’s Jealousy?
Retroactive jealousy is being jealous of the things your mate does before you entered the picture. Although petty, is it being fostered by your actions? Is there anything worse than your significant other being jealous? Perhaps only retroactive jealousy. What is retroactive jealousy? It is jealousy of a significant other that came before, a crush that continues to pop up, or someone in your partner’s past that neither they, nor you, can get past. What is retroactive jealousy? Retroactive jealousy means you are jealous of things that the person you are with did before you were even in the pictu...
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