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Space – Not the Outer Kind – That Unseen Aspect Necessary to Every Relationship

Space – Not the Outer Kind – That Unseen Aspect Necessary to Every Relationship
When your partner says "You are smothering me" or "You need to give me some space." or "I need some space." can leave you feeling disturbed, on the offense, or even scared.  The first thing you may respond to your partner is, "What do you mean you need more space, space for what?"  It is a pretty typical response, maybe not the best, but when one is feeling threatened, knee jerk responses can come flowing out of our mouths at times. First thing you need to do is breath, breath really deep and think of what brought out the space statement.  Was there anything being discussed at the time?  Have...
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