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Discover Your Hidden Super Power

Discover Your Hidden Super Power
I’ll be honest – Many times as husbands, we can be wimps. In fact, if you’re like me, there are times when you can play the wimpy, victim role very well. This is a classic Nice Guy trait. You hear it in what we say to ourselves and others: “It’s just not fair.” “How come she always gets her way?” “If they would just …” The Nice Guy paradigm begins in childhood as a survival mechanism. In order to get their love and attention needs met they develop this belief; “If I’m good and do what’s right, I’ll be loved, get my needs met, and have a problem free life.“ The problem ...
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Her Sexuality Is Hidden Literally and Figuratively

Her Sexuality Is Hidden Literally and Figuratively
Have you noticed your sexual bits are out front and clearly visible, while hers are not? I mean yeah, her breasts are all out there, but her genitals are pretty well hidden even when she’s naked. You can only get a good look if she shows herself to you. What is true of the physical here is also true of the emotional. Your sexuality is all out there, hers is not. You’re ready at the drop of a hat blouse, she needs far more. When you’re aroused it’s very obvious, while her arousal is hidden. I think God did this to help us understand the differences in male and female se...
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The Hidden Danger in Many Christian Marriage Books

The Hidden Danger in Many Christian Marriage Books
I realize I’m treading on sacred ground with this post, but I believe it is ground that must be treaded. There are several popular and helpful works in the Christian marriage-help book world, The Five Love Languages, His Needs Her Needs, Love and Respect, The Love Dare to name a few of the major players. While each of these works has offered up help and support, and possibly even hope to thousands of people throughout the world – there’s an undercurrent found within the pages that may actually be causing more harm than help. While I want to believe that this undercurrent may not...
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