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Friday Flashback: Being True to Yourself is Good for Her

Friday Flashback: Being True to Yourself is Good for Her
While this study was done on college age dating couples, some of the findings are certainly relevant to a wider group – including married folks of all ages.  For example: “Overall, the study found that both men and women who reported being more true to themselves also behaved in more intimate and less destructive ways with their partner, and that led to them feeling their relationship was more positive. In addition, they also reported greater personal well-being.” and “Men who were more true to themselves had partners who showed more healthy relationship behaviors.  How...
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Friday Flashback: Is The Pill Killing Her Sex Drive?

Friday Flashback: Is The Pill Killing Her Sex Drive?
This is a tricky issue because all the needed science hasn’t been done. I’m not one of those who thinks “Big Pharm” is out to get us all, but there is no doubt that drug companies, and a lot of others, don’t want this to be true – and if it is true, they don’t really want the word to get out. Complaints of the pill killing sex drive have been around as long as the pill has, but the claims have been dismissed as anecdotal. Some respond by pointing out that some women have more sex when they go on the pill. An initial increase in sex is likely because se...
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Friday Flashback: Why She Says No to Sex And What You Can Do About It

Friday Flashback: Why She Says No to Sex And What You Can Do About It
The most read post on this blog, is Why wives say no to sex, and what a man can do about it. At 175 comments it may also be the post with the most comments. It was published June 23, 2012 following a survey asking women why they say no to sex. Time for an updated version of the post. When we originally ran the poll, 171 women answered – some only after Lori assured them it was anonymous! We have now had 468 women answer the survey. The ranking of answers did not change significantly with the additional answers. As with any web-based survey, I can’t claim the results are representative of ...
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