Enough

Bad enough to leave? Or good enough to stay?

Bad enough to leave? Or good enough to stay?
Wise Readers: When you get involved with someone, do you find yourself wondering whether their behavior is bad enough to justify leaving them? Or do you wonder whether it’s good enough to stay? The orientation of your question is important. Abuse is scientifically defined as a systematic program of controlling another person. Abusers can use any means: money, threats, put-downs, public humiliation, physical injury, sexual harm. But it all comes down to control. I want you all to be very careful to avoid people who show early signs of controlling behavior. You’ll never know whether ...
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Are You Playing Hard Enough?

Are You Playing Hard Enough?
If you are really dedicated and passionate about your work, you can quite easily enslave yourself to it. Not wanting to miss a single email, text message, or Facebook post, you regularly spend the time you put aside to be with your partner or your friends checking updates and lancing away at a keyboard. Most people would call this an unhealthy obsession. For you it is merely doing your job. You are dedicated to your profession and do not mind putting in the hours to see that all turns out well. But just as you work hard you should play hard. G...
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