Control

When an Out of Control Mindset Hijacks the Steering Wheel

When an Out of Control Mindset Hijacks the Steering Wheel
Whether it’s in the news or our personal lives, we bear witness to people continuing to engage in compulsive, self-defeating behaviors despite the obvious negative or destructive effects. Sometimes it seems like what’s needed is more willpower, moral fiber, or a better strategy to fight temptation when the primitive part of our brains take over. However, in many cases the obstacle to change is that we were never fully on board with giving up these patterns in the first place. But why wouldn’t people who seem to, or should, “know better” be motivated to stop doing something that goes against th...
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“Frame Control Confidence Secrets” That Make Her Chase

“Frame Control Confidence Secrets” That Make Her Chase
The “Frame Control Confidence” Secrets “Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change.” – Wayne W. Dyer How the hell was he getting away with it? He was about 5’9, 40 pounds overweight, and had an unkempt, long black beard that looked like it would be a comfortable home for a family of lice. She was 5’11, blonde, skinny, and wearing a bright green dress that perfectly molded itself to all of her curves. When he first approached her, she barely even gave him a chance. She turned her hips away, and proceeded to give him a barrage of one word answers to all of his que...
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