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You Have Not Because You Ask Not

You Have Not Because You Ask Not
When someone tells me their spouse isn’t giving them something they want, I usually say, “Have you asked for it clearly?” The answers are often something like, “He should know” or “I told her when we got married” or other things that aren’t a clear, recent request.  Let me share a truth with you: If you haven’t asked, you haven’t been refused. And if you asked in the past, but didn’t ask today, then you weren’t refused today. I realise this may seem like wordplay, but it’s not. Rejecting a clear request is much more...
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