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Q&A with J: “What Can I Do About My Sexless Marriage?” Part 2

Q&A with J: “What Can I Do About My Sexless Marriage?” Part 2
Welcome to my Thursday Q&A…on Saturday. Because Wednesday through Friday were Crazy Town in the Parker office, so I’m two days behind. Anyway, last week, I talked about addressing sexless marriage, or ones in which your libidos are highly mismatched. In that post, I suggested “if you want to make progress in a sexless marriage, you should make every effort to create a safe environment in which your refusing spouse can share and feel validated, loved, and supported.” But let me go back and clarify something for those of you in the midst of a sexual drought in your ma...
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11 Things You Absolutely Must Know about Toxic People

11 Things You Absolutely Must Know about Toxic People
While most of us have seen fictional representations of psychopaths, sociopaths and people who are evil, these aren’t the kinds of friends, neighbors, co-workers and family members we regularly interact with. Yet, we may be likely to encounter or occasionally deal with people who are best classified as toxic. As the word implies, there’s nothing good about toxic people. Even though most toxic people aren’t criminals, they could have underlying personality disorders, including narcissistic personality disorder, bipolar disorder, or other mental health condition. Or they could just be mean, sel...
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Preggophilia: A Bumpie Fetish Most Moms-to-Be Have No Idea About

Preggophilia: A Bumpie Fetish Most Moms-to-Be Have No Idea About
Maybe you’re wondering why if you’re pregnant, why men look at you with a twinkle in their eyes. Well, it’s called preggophilia. When someone’s pregnant, people’s go-to move is to touch the baby bump. They wanna feel the baby move. They also want to know how pregnant people have sex, but never mind. On the other side, you have people which take this to a different level of attraction and interest. This is when it’s called preggophilia. If you post your baby bump on social media, you’re probably getting a stream of likes, but there are different reasons why people take interest in your photo. W...
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Important Information About Online Dating

Important Information About Online Dating
Online dating has cut across geographical barriers as people from the world over can log in and interact with one another. Online dating has also cut across ethic and religious barriers as people from different historical backgrounds and race can socialize comfortably with one another. Thanks to the internet, dating is becoming a global success.With online dating, you have the ultimate say about whom you date. You can eliminate date prospects that do not fit into your profile of the person you want for life when dating online. Online dating services allow you to sift through available dating ...
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What to Bear in mind about Senior Courting Expertise

As societal individuals, everyone has the direct have to have for companionship. Which is why, even the widowed plus the divorced types still uncover the approach to place another partner in their lives. And most of all, as one particular real truth that clings for the common scenarios today, even married individuals nevertheless find the urge to search for new companionship. Now the problem has been used up from the relationship expert services which have popularized on the web as a result of time. And now, there is the extensive availability in the attributes from the so-known as senior dat...
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The Truth About Spin

I suppose spin is as old as public debate. But the turn it has taken in the last couple of decades has gone beyond all bounds of reason. Jockeying for advantage, trying to put yourself or your issue in the best light, minimizing the awkwardness of being proven wrong or mistaken, making every effort to throw your interlocutor or opponent off balance—these are some of the aims of spin. It is, in its most basic formulation, the employment of a range of rhetorical tactics to paint your opinion, belief, or position as the most and that of your op...
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How to Stop Caring About Someone Who Once Meant the World to You

How to Stop Caring About Someone Who Once Meant the World to You
Breakups suck. They’re difficult to get through and sometimes you can’t let go. If this is you, you may want to know how to stop caring about someone. I know how hard it is to get through a breakup – especially when that person was your entire world. But for one reason or another, they’ve decided that you’re not a great match and there you lay, covered in blankets and clutching your favorite tub of ice cream, wondering just how to stop caring about someone you love. It won’t be easy, that’s for sure. But over time, you can learn to stop caring about someone you once loved. It’ll take time, con...
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10 Things A Woman Will Notice About You At First Sight

10 Things A Woman Will Notice About You At First Sight
Love at first sight might not be real… the verdict is still out on that one. But, what is definitely real are the observational skills of a woman. From the tiny speck of dust on your shoulder to the jarring colour of your shoes—she notices everything about you the very instant you've walked into the room. And while she leaves no sight unobserved, here are 10 things about you she has definitely noticed under 10 seconds. Maybe you can be mindful about these before you see her next time.  1. Your Hair  Maybe it has to do with the fact that it's the topmost feature about you...
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Relationship Tip:The 3 Things You Need To Know About Growing Your Relationship

Relationship Tip:The 3 Things You Need To Know About Growing Your Relationship
You meet someone special and it seems like everyday is Christmas. The chemistry between the two of you is so incredible and intense that you are thinking of putting a patent on it and selling it over the counter. You hope it will always be that way. Of course it will not. In the early stages of a relationship everything flows easier. Love and romance seem to push aside all obstacles in their path. But as time goes by, reality sets in. No doubt that love should be an essential part of any relationship but it is going to require a lot of work and considerations in other areas to sustain and gro...
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Emotionally Detached? 15 Signs They Don’t Really Care About You

Emotionally Detached? 15 Signs They Don’t Really Care About You
You may be dating or interested in someone, but they’re just not giving you what you want. You could say that they act emotionally detached. I have been on dates with so many guys and tried dating some of them where I felt things were off as if they were emotionally detached. Well, I didn’t have to feel it, half of them literally ran away from me, so I could see it wasn’t going to go anywhere. But was that because I did something wrong? No, in fact, I did everything right. They simply weren’t ready. Someone may like you, but the minute they start thinking about what the future with you will lo...
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Everything You Need To Know About Relationship Rescue

Those early days in a relationship are the uncomplicated ones when everything about your partner is seen through rose decorated glasses and any temperamental shortcomings are ignored in favor of those lovable features that make everything look so perfect. While doing so, we conveniently forget that it takes pains to make a long term relationship work and in the end we head towards one ultimate relationship disaster. And this is when you need to think about relationship rescue, which till date was one of the most alien concepts to you. Relationships are intricate, and the guiding rules keep ch...
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Marriage Is About Action

Marriage Is About Action
Napoleon Dynamite: Well, nobody’s going to go out with ME! Pedro: Have you asked anybody yet? Napoleon Dynamite: No, but who would? I don’t even have any good skills. Pedro: What do you mean? Napoleon Dynamite: You know, like nunchuk skills, bow-hunting skills, computer hacking skills. Girls only want boyfriends who have great skills. Pedro: Aren’t you pretty good at drawing, like animals and warriors and stuff? Napoleon Dynamite: Yes… probably the best that I know of. Pedro: Just draw a picture of the girl you want to take out… and give it to her for like a gift...
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3 Quotes About Relationships – Help Solve YOUR Relationship Problems, Today!

Relationships are hard work! Whether you're talking about romantic relationships, sibling relationships, relationships with friends, colleagues and even acquaintances - all these forms of relationships bring with them difficulties, and relationship questions you'd like answering.Well, I have good news for those of you looking for relationship advice online. There is an 'easy solution' to all your relationship woes, and that solution is YOU...And that's what this relationship article is going to be about. And, together with 3 quotes about relationships, we're going to discover how WE - you and...
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Have You Ever Thought About Secretly Taking Off Your Condom During Sex?

Have You Ever Thought About Secretly Taking Off Your Condom During Sex?
According to a paper published in the Columbia Journal of Gender and Law, the non-consensual removal of a condom during sex, a.k.a. ‘Stealthing’, is gaining popularity amongst online groups, Reddit threads, and forums. According to a lot of women, this behavior can easily be categorized as “sexually abusive”, "rape-adjacent” and a “grave violation of dignity…” Reason being? The overwhelming fear of unwanted pregnancy, STDs, HIV, and AIDS, mixed with confusion, betrayal, and shame is strikingly similar to that of a victim dealing with sexual viol...
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Should You Tell Your Wife About Temptation?

Should You Tell Your Wife About Temptation?
I know a couple who decided early in their marriage (which has lasted 40 years now) that they would tell each other any time they felt at all attracted to another person. Not just “I’m tempted to have an affair” attraction, they confessed attractions much smaller than that. Does that idea make you break out in a cold sweat or what? I mean, yeah, it’s a great way to prevent temptation from growing, but wow, even the small stuff? Part of why this has worked for them is they can both be reasonable if the other says, “I really like Sam, maybe a bit more than I should...
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8 Things Women Observe About You In Bed That You Probably Didnt Realise

8 Things Women Observe About You In Bed That You Probably Didnt Realise
Women have observation skills. I mean this in the most intense way possible. She may never admit to that thing she saw you sneakily do that no one else saw, or that habit that you have which you probably didn’t know about yourself. But, she knows. She always knows things which don’t really need a reason to be validated. And while having sex, sure, we’re all caught up in the moment enjoying whatever it is that you’re doing to us, eyes half open, half closed, somewhere between oblivion and sensation.  But, we’re also subconsciously making a note of the things y...
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4 Signs That You’re About To Have An Affair

4 Signs That You’re About To Have An Affair
A one night stand, a brief fling, a night of wild, uninhibited, drink-fueled sex with a woman who is not your wife or girlfriend is one thing. Carrying on with another woman over a long period of time is quite another. The former may lead to the latter. But an affair is most likely to occur after a prolonged and subtle flirtation with a woman you know well. It is easier than you think to get drawn into one. Whether you decide to cross the line of flirtation into actual sex is up to you, but you should not fool yourself into thinking it was something that “just happened”. There are alwa...
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Friday Flashback: Why She Says No to Sex And What You Can Do About It

Friday Flashback: Why She Says No to Sex And What You Can Do About It
The most read post on this blog, is Why wives say no to sex, and what a man can do about it. At 175 comments it may also be the post with the most comments. It was published June 23, 2012 following a survey asking women why they say no to sex. Time for an updated version of the post. When we originally ran the poll, 171 women answered – some only after Lori assured them it was anonymous! We have now had 468 women answer the survey. The ranking of answers did not change significantly with the additional answers. As with any web-based survey, I can’t claim the results are representative of ...
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