Favorable online senior dating starts with the first time someone views your profile. It’s the most important time in online senior dating.
Each ad should be well thought out and emulate just what you are seeking. Be sincere. Don’t lie to the other mature single members of the senior dating site and pretend that you are someone that you are not, because someone searching for who you really will miss you! This wastes your time and everyone else’s.
A picture is worth a thousand words.
The ads of seniors who submit photographys get on average 12 times the searches of those without photographs. You do not have to submit a picture with your ad, but it might be worth considering. At www.NRNdating.com, we give single seniors or those looking for over 50 dating, the chance to upload several large images and one preview image with your ad.
When you receive a counter to your ad, it is either going to spark your interest, or not interest you at all. Even if the e-mail doesn’t light your fire, it is always polite to send a response, even if it is to say “Thanks, but no thanks.” After all, this mature single was curious enough in you to send you an email, so take it as a compliment and write back an acknowledgement that the email was accepted. If the message does light your fire, then respond to it and enjoy!
Responding To An Ad When Using A Senior Online Dating Service
When you are searching a single seniors database, you need to realize that not all seniors will be responding and not all seniors will be interested in what you have to offer. So it is a great idea to respond to more than one ad at once.
Never go overboard with your first email. Unless specifically asked, don’t go into elongated tirades about what a good lover you are and what you will do with him/her/them when you meet. Announce yourself and let the other single seniors know a little bit about you. Just as someone placing in an ad should include a picture, so should you send a photograph when you respond to the ad.
Once you receive a response to your message it is time to start giving more information. This may be a good time to speak on the phone to get a better feel for the person. Then, when you feel comfortable, it is time for the encounter.
Meeting Your Over 50 Dating Match
The first meeting another single senior is a huge step. This should be fun, but also bear in mind that safety is an issue. That is why we recommend that the initial meeting be at a public place and either during the lunch hour or right after work. If things go well, you can arrange for an immediate, more personal setting, or you can arrange one at a more conducive hour and place.