Relationships

Signs She Wants a Relationship with You: 12 Hints You Can’t Miss!

Signs She Wants a Relationship with You: 12 Hints You Can’t Miss!
For some of us, dating is a breeze. But let’s be honest, in the 21st century, sometimes you need these signs she wants a relationship with you. What can I say about dating – it’s a lot of work. All the texting, what to say, when to say it, the ghosting, the awkward first kiss. I’ve done it all… and you probably have to. But once you’ve passed all the small talk and getting to know each other moments, you’ve entered into this phase where you either take it to the next level or bail. And I get it, this is a nerve-wracking moment. Being vulnerable is scary. I mean, what if you want to push ...
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Q&A on Saving a Relationship

Q&A on Saving a Relationship
If you are fretting that your relationship is falling apart at the seams and you guys might break up, than you should continue reading some of my personal answers to common questions asked about saving a relationship.Q: Where do I start in saving my relationship?A: The first thing you need to do is to confirm to yourself that this relationship is worth saving. Your situation might be different, but in most cases, relationships falling apart have someone or both people taking the relationship for granted. Neglecting to take the time to say "I love you" or show affection can be start of your pr...
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Why Do People Lie in Relationships? 10 Common Reasons Why We Fib

Why Do People Lie in Relationships? 10 Common Reasons Why We Fib
Relationships can be frustrating when the person you’re dating lies. So why do people lie in relationships? Here are 10 of the most common reasons. If everybody lies and nobody likes being lied to, then why do people lie in relationships? Whether it’s a little white lie or an earth-shattering secret, lies will happen between you and your romantic partner—and it sucks. Is lying so deeply ingrained in people that they don’t know they do it? One study shows that 60% of adults can’t go 10 minutes without telling a lie. Granted, the lies were trivial in nature, but then why tell them at all? Re...
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When Is A Relationship Bad? Signs of A Toxic Relationship

When Is A Relationship Bad? Signs of A Toxic Relationship
When is a relationship bad? There are almost always signs when a relationship is going south and when it is just about to turn toxic but you need to be conscious of these before it's too late.How you can tell if your relationship really is bad for you and what you should do about it. You don't have to stay in a relationship that is bad or toxic but if you choose to stay, there are things you can do to change it so that you have an even stronger relationship.These are the signs that ought to be your first clues that you are in a toxic relationship.1. Your partner verbally insults you and puts ...
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Signs a Girl is Interested in You: 18 Hints She’ll Drop Your Way

Signs a Girl is Interested in You: 18 Hints She’ll Drop Your Way
When a guy likes a girl, he probably wants to ask her out on a date right then. But can you recognize the signs a girl is interested? Men know that we carry the burden of making the first move. So that brings the question, how do women make their attraction known? Since women won’t ask men out directly, they give out signs as a form of an invitation or a “go signal” to let prospective partners know that they would want you to make a move or to bring the courtship to the next level. It now falls on you to be familiar with these nonverbal cues no matter how confusing they can be sometimes, t...
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10 Proactive Ways to Figure Out What’s Most Important to You

10 Proactive Ways to Figure Out What’s Most Important to You
Life offers infinite variety, along with myriad challenges and opportunities. It’s easy to get lost in indecision with so many choices. You want success, yet wonder if you’re on the right path. You’d like to have balance in your life, but there are so many conflicts that you often find yourself spending energy too much in one direction. What’s happening here is a lack of prioritization, of figuring out what in life is most important to you — and then acting upon it. While not life-threatening, a failure to identify what’s most meaningful to you can erode your quality of living. To ensure...
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Narcissistic Abuse: 16 Subtle Signs a Narcissist is Abusing You

Narcissistic Abuse: 16 Subtle Signs a Narcissist is Abusing You
In whatever relationship, narcissistic abuse can be one of the hardest forms of abuse to endure. These 16 signs tell you if you are being abused. Although more attention has been paid to the personality disorder termed the narcissistic personality type recently, it is not a new phenomenon. Alice Miller, a Swiss psychologist, brought the notion of narcissistic abuse as far back as the early 1980s. The first psychoanalyst to break from the pack, she proposed a theory that trauma need not come only in the form of violence or sexual abuse. She asserted there was a fundamental way to abuse children...
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8 Things Women Observe About You In Bed That You Probably Didnt Realise

8 Things Women Observe About You In Bed That You Probably Didnt Realise
Women have observation skills. I mean this in the most intense way possible. She may never admit to that thing she saw you sneakily do that no one else saw, or that habit that you have which you probably didn’t know about yourself. But, she knows. She always knows things which don’t really need a reason to be validated. And while having sex, sure, we’re all caught up in the moment enjoying whatever it is that you’re doing to us, eyes half open, half closed, somewhere between oblivion and sensation.  But, we’re also subconsciously making a note of the things y...
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How to Be Happy Again: 20 Ways to Draw Happiness From Within

How to Be Happy Again: 20 Ways to Draw Happiness From Within
Sometimes life feels like a series of chores and obligations. If you want to learn how to be happy again, stop searching outside yourself and look within. There are times in life where it is easy to get stuck in a rut. When you are there, every day seems like Groundhog Day. One morning you wake up, stop, and look around, and what you find is there isn’t really much that you find joy in or that makes you happy. If you want to know how to be happy again, it is all about retraining your brain, getting out of your funk, and thinking positive. Happiness is not a static thing. It comes, and it g...
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Discover What Your Marriage Is Missing: Your Relationship Check-up Is Long Overdue

Discover What Your Marriage Is Missing: Your Relationship Check-up Is Long Overdue
No one can deny the benefit of preventive medicine. First of all, it's often easier to prevent an illness than it is to cure it--that's why you go in for your annual physical (or why you should). And we all can agree that feeling healthy is preferable to feeling sick. So looking out for potential illnesses before they take over your life is the reasoning behind the medical check-up. But when was your last relationship check-up?Everyone needs a Relationship Check-up...Unfortunately, couples and couples counselors have not adopted the philosophy of the regular physical for relationships. Most ...
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Commitment: The Essential Ingredient In Your Relationship

Commitment: The Essential Ingredient In Your Relationship
Anyone who has run a marathon knows about commitment. To compete, the athlete relies on extensive training and physical fitness. But when the initial enthusiasm wanes and the painful, long-distance realities grip the runner's body, it is sheer dedication--commitment to completing what she started--that sustains the runner's motivation as she reaches for the finish line. A relationship is a lot like running a marathon. There are highs and lows, challenges and rewards, and times when you may want to give up--when it feels too difficult to continue. What will keep you on track and moving forw...
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Book Review: A Loving Divorce

Book Review: A Loving Divorce
When a couple says, “I do,” those two simple words are filled with hope, love, and devotion. There is a sense of permanency, of stability, of forever. And yet we are repeatedly faced with sobering statistics. Half of all US marriages end in divorce. The average length of these marriages is eight years — that is a long time to intertwine one’s most intimate thoughts and feelings with another before they are torn apart. Divorce is notoriously messy, with melodramatic TV shows, books, and movies built around the heartbreak and hair-pulling of a crumbling marriage, complete with insults, ac...
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Single Parent Survey now up for next Love Factually book!

Single Parent Survey now up for next Love Factually book!
Wise Readers~ Did you know?  Over 25% of American children are being raised by at least one parent who is not partnered.  But even though single parenting is common, when it comes to dating they’re all too often given the same advice and resources as non-parents.  If you are, have been, or were raised by a single parent, you know that dating after children is simply not the same.This survey is for everyone who is a single parent looking for love; has been in that situation; or who was raised by one or more parents in that situation.   https://www.s...
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Dating Goals: 10 Realistic Goals that WILL Lead You to The One

Dating Goals: 10 Realistic Goals that WILL Lead You to The One
Going out with someone new is both exciting and a little scary. In order to find the one, these are the dating goals you should have with someone new. I know it may sound silly to have dating goals but trust me when I say they can help you out in the long run. There are certain things you should be on the lookout for in a new partner. And there are certain expectations that should be met when you’re dating someone new. If you’re just going out with people for the fun of it and you’re not concerned with finding “the one,” then this may not apply to you. However, if you’re been searching for...
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Cum Like a Porn Star: How to Shoot a Powerful Load Every Time

Cum Like a Porn Star: How to Shoot a Powerful Load Every Time
You’ve seen it in porn, but probably question if it’s even possible. Can someone actually cum like that? Yep. Here’s how to cum like a porn star. Let’s be honest, probably 99% of us have watched porn for enjoyment. I personally can’t watch porn because I lose interest, but I know many people who live by it. But, besides that, I’ve watched a couple porn videos where the man and woman are both cumming like there’s no tomorrow, and frankly, I was impressed. But, of course, after watching that, I became curious. Are porn stars the only ones who can do that? Do they have some special gift that ...
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25 Signs Your Heart Is Breaking *and How to Get Over It*

25 Signs Your Heart Is Breaking *and How to Get Over It*
It can be horrible to feel as though your heart is breaking. Here are the signs that suggest you are nursing a broken heart—and how to fix it. Everyone goes through heartbreak at some point in their lives. At the time, it feels like the very worst thing in the world. The signs of a broken heart are both physical and mental, and some of them really take you by surprise. Knowing your heart is breaking is the first step you need to take in order to mend it again. The signs your heart is breaking Let’s look at the signs that indicate your heart is breaking, and how you can start to make thi...
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Are Your Friends Hurting Your Relationship?

You exist within a web of relationships. For instance, if your friend is going through tough times, you may find yourself feeling an emotional heaviness throughout the day, thinking and worrying about your friend. As this colors your mood, your partner may start to notice that lately you've been preoccupied and down. Since emotions are contagious, this will impact your partner in some way and her/his interactions with others may now be different as a result of what your friend shared with you. How is this relevant to your marriage or relationship? Your relationship exists within a larger...
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Marriage: Is It Redundant Similar To Every Other Monogamous Relationship Or Something Else?

Marriage: Is It Redundant Similar To Every Other Monogamous Relationship Or Something Else?
It’s so done and dusted that it almost seems like an age-old debate now. But, it isn’t. The question of whether it is to be, or not to be is very recent. And it came about with the rise of gender equality, freedom of sexuality and role reversals. A lot of millennials are questioning the institution altogether, while others are entering into holy matrimony for all the wrong reasons. Look around you and tell me if you haven’t seen couples get married only because they were too afraid to be alone; or because they thought they couldn’t do better or, simply put, kids and fin...
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Why You Should Stop Being a Good Person

Why You Should Stop Being a Good Person
“You’re such a good boy, Daniel.” “Sarah, that was a nice thing you did. You’re a sweetheart.” Did you hear phrases like this when you were younger? If you’re a parent, have you said something similar to your child? This form of praising starts in early childhood. Our parents, family members, and teachers innocently install it in us (as the prior generation did to them). “Good boy/girl” praising gives children a sense of pride and approval from their parents. This praising gets anchored into the child’s mind. Good behavior brings reward. Expressing negative emotions and unacceptable behavior ...
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When Your Best Friend Ignores You: The Why and the Ways to Fix It

When Your Best Friend Ignores You: The Why and the Ways to Fix It
If your BFF has suddenly turned cold and distant, you need to find out why. So, here’s what to do when your best friend ignores you. A best friend is hard to find. That’s why you’ve put so much time and effort into maintaining your friendships. You and your best friend have weathered the roughest storms. From bad breakups and family disasters, to hysterical late night rants. Your best friend is the one person you could have fun waiting in a two-hour line with. It is for all of these reasons that it becomes especially hurtful when your best friend ignores you. Going ignored by someone who’s sup...
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