Ever felt a certain tingle deep inside you when you’re with someone? The kind that makes you just wonder… what if? You see, one doesn’t always meet someone who could change the course of life, itself. And there are so very few people who can do that. It doesn’t take them an entire lifetime. All it takes is one look and a whirlwind revelation that happens so silently deep within your soul. But, in that moment, you know that life, as you know it is about to change and you can’t wait to see where it goes. For the first time, you’re looking forward to this change with eyes and arms wide open. And it all happens because of this one person who has the single most profound potential to influence you in ways that could only be written in the stars.
And yes, while sometimes, all you need is that one look, that one spark and that one small flame rising up within you. Other times, the many of us who are once bitten twice shy don’t want to rely simply on our intuition, lest it prove us wrong, yet again. We always want to be sure—of ourselves and everyone else in our lives. And so, we seek out the signs. Signs, that tell us, we might just be right this one time; that this person might just stay; that they might be unlike everyone we’ve ever known, or dated before and that maybe… just maybe, this might be it. Signs, like these…
1. They Feel Like Home
It’s that sense of familiarity that instantly lets you slip into comfort, without having to try at all. Home no longer resembles four walls, a room. Home now resembles their face; then, you could be anywhere in the world; hell, you could be stranded in the middle of nowhere and you’d still feel like home as long as you’re with them.
2. You Knew Them Before You Met Them
It’s almost cosmic the way you saw this person coming, without actually seeing them coming. From the very first time you met, and exchanged your first words, you feel an other-worldly connection, like you know this person from another lifetime, from before this time.
3. It Was The First Look
Back then, it might have been just another person you noticed; but, each time you glance their way, you can’t shake off the possibility of this person. It’s from the very first look. It’s like an unspoken language when you see each other and from that very first glance, you can’t stop looking at them and you don’t really know why.
4. The Timing Is Just Right
The most incredulous thing about meeting this person is the timing. Sure, it might not be the most perfect timing in your life, overall. But, emotionally, you were ready, unattached and ready to welcome something new and transcendental. And what’s fascinating is how they’re on the exact same page. It’s like all your lives, you had been working up just so you could come to this moment and this person. It all fits.
5. They Seek You Out
No matter you may be, doing whatever it is that you may be doing. They don’t need a phone, or a message to seek you out. It’s like you’ve been to the same places at close, yet different times, almost as if it was just a bit of a glitch in the seconds. But, you seek each other out, always; even if you don’t consciously intend to.
6. You Become A Priority
This person becomes the single most important person in your universe. Every thought and every action that you work on is somehow, or the other, intended not just for your betterment, but, for theirs, too. And it’s vice versa with them. For the first time, you’re not the only one who’s factoring in this person. For the first time, this person is doing exactly the same, or more to be a part of your life.
7. It Comes Easy To You
Being around this person, emoting, talking, smiling and laughing and just generally, being yourself comes so easily around this person. It’s effortless. And as soon as you’re hit by this realization, you realize how much more you like yourself when you’re with them. This makes you want to be around them even more; and, just like everything else, it comes easy. It’s natural.
8. There’s A Deeper Understanding
They can sense you. And you, them. It’s unreal. But, it’s just as real as the blood running through your veins. They can sense when you’re upset, worried, sad, disappointed, angry or even just trying to avoid something. They know you better than you know the back of your hand. They can tell what you’re thinking better than your thoughts. It amazes and frightens you at the same time.
9. You Can Trust Them
There is just something about them that makes you want to trust them. Again, it comes to you naturally. You can trust that they’ll be there for you—for a late night conversation, a long drive out to nowhere, to catch you when you fall, or stagger. They’ve got you. And you never have to second-guess their actions, or intentions.
10. It’s No Longer About Sex
From the beginning, you cannot comprehend how, but this person being with you in the moment is thousand times better than all the sex you’ve had in your life, cumulatively. You do want the sex; but, it’s just a means to an end at the very best. This is the person you were meant to grow old with; so that even when your body stops functioning like when you’re young, you’d still search for their face every morning and night.
Article from: RELATIONSHIPS, by Dessidre Fleming
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